Mediator Marginalia & Notes

Jeez, I came back into the room yesterday and they were reading my notes!!

I got mad, right?

Well no, I explained that the scrawled letters 'BS' followed by two exclamation marks on the page (next to the $$ claim) did not mean I thought their claim lacked credibility, 'no, no I said, mediators don't take views like that'.

...rather it meant I wanted them to explain it some more, so it could be respected by the other side who were, by the bye, keen to explore the letters 'BS' in some detail....

Note to self: 1. no need to take any more reframing classes, and 2. trust no one when doing the shuttle thing.